The Companion Workbook

Flipping the Iceberg Workbook

Discovering and celebrating what lies beneath the surface in your relationships. The book shows you the iceberg. The workbook helps you actually map your own.

Why the workbook

Reading about your pattern is the first step. Actually seeing your own iceberg on paper, in your own handwriting, is what makes it real enough to change. The workbook takes every idea from the book and turns it into a guided exercise you work through at your own pace.

Guided reflection prompts for every chapter of the book
Space to map your own iceberg: what's visible, what's underneath
Exercises to trace a current pattern back to where it started
Prompts built for both the never-married reader and the divorced reader
A section to track what's shifting as you go, not just what's wrong

$14.99

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Best used alongside the book. Get both together and start with the framework and the exercises at the same time. Coming to the free workshop on Oct 22? The $37 early-bird VIP upgrade includes the ebook edition, sent to you that night.

Better Together

The book and the workbook, side by side

The Book

Gives you the framework. What the iceberg is, why it forms, and how it's been running your relationships without your permission.

$19.99

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The Workbook

Gives you the exercises. Where you actually put your own life onto the page and start mapping what's been hidden underneath.