Resources
Some of these are ready now. Others are on the way. Everything here is meant to help you keep working the Iceberg Framework between the book, the workshops, and your own life.
Free, ten questions, three minutes. For singles, people dating, and engaged couples. It names what's under your waterline and tells you what to do about it.
Take the CheckFree, for women rebuilding after divorce. Eleven questions about who you are now, and what's still sitting under the water.
Take the CheckThe same idea for people already married. After the I Do, where the iceberg shows up in the daily arguments instead of at the altar.
Open the MeterSee the first three chapters of Flipping the Iceberg before you buy.
Read the PreviewFour sessions of questions for book clubs and small groups working through the book together. Print it and go.
Open the GuideExplore your feelings, beliefs, and relationship patterns with six guided prompts. Sign up with your email to receive the free worksheet.
Get the Free WorksheetCharisse talking through the Iceberg Framework in conversation, as episodes go live.
Get NotifiedIn person, 7 to 8:30 PM, free seat, and the last one at this price. The four-week program dates are announced that night.
Save My SeatHave a question about the book, the framework, or where to start? Reach out directly.
Send an EmailCommon Questions
No. Charisse is not a licensed therapist, and Flipping the Iceberg is not a substitute for professional therapy or medical advice. It's a framework built from lived experience and years of teaching, meant to help you see your own pattern. If you're working through trauma with a licensed professional, this book and its workshops can sit alongside that work, not replace it.
It helps, but it's not required. The workshop walks through the Iceberg Framework directly, so you'll get the core ideas either way. Reading the book first just means you'll go in with a head start.
The book gives you the framework: what the iceberg is, why the pattern forms, and how to start seeing it. The workbook gives you guided exercises to actually map your own pattern on paper. Most people get the most out of using both together.
No. The book and workshops welcome young adults, women, men, people in a relationship, engaged couples, people with trauma, codependent people, people who’ve experienced abuse, divorced people, single people, people who want to heal, and people who want a relationship.
Join the waitlist on the Workshops page. You'll hear first, before spots go public.
