Thursday, October 22 · 1 to 2 PM or 7 to 8:30 PM
Don't let that be your story. In one hour, live and in person in Riverton, Utah, Charisse Walker walks you through the three steps that let you see the ninety percent of a person sitting under the surface, starting with your own.
How the Day Runs
Come to whichever one fits. The afternoon is aimed at women rebuilding after a divorce and at anyone sitting in a relationship that has gone unhappy. The evening is open to all four doors, and it opens with a carnival.
For divorced women, and for anyone in a relationship that is not working. A smaller room and a more direct conversation about healing first, and about what comes after.
Register for the session you want. If you want both, say so and Charisse will save you a seat at each.
Why This Night Exists
Charisse was standing in her kitchen when her daughter asked why everyone loved her dad, and why nobody could see the real him. The answer she gave became a book, and then a framework: what you see in a person is the tip. The part that decides how your relationship actually goes is underneath.
This workshop is where she hands you the three steps for getting to it. Before you say "I do," and after.
What You'll Walk Out With
That's what FTI stands for. One hour, three steps, and a way of looking at the person across from you, and at yourself, that you can use the next morning.
Discover what your icebergs actually are, then learn to spot theirs. What makes them tick. What makes you tick. Most people have never once looked at their own list, which is exactly why the same pattern keeps showing up wearing a different face.
The fairy-tale version of marriage versus the real one. Charisse grew up on Cinderella and thought that was the deal: everyone's happy, everything gets along. Then came the first fight, on the honeymoon. You'll look at the expectations you carried in and which ones have to change, and at the old truth that one finger points out while three point back.
You'll stand up in that room and say out loud: I love myself. I am worthy. I deserve it. Whichever one catches in your throat is the one to work on, because you cannot intentionally love another person until you can say all three. Then you choose it, daily, on purpose, for them too.
Four Doors, One Room
The three steps don't change. What changes is what you do with them. Tell Charisse which one you are when you register, and she'll aim the night at you.
"I got a boyfriend so I would never be alone. It took writing a book to see what I was really doing."
Learn what's actually driving your pattern, so the next relationship is a choice instead of a reflex.
Save My SeatStart free: take the Iceberg Check
"I knew at the altar. I said yes anyway. Do not let that be your story."
See the ninety percent of your partner, and of yourself, that the engagement glow is currently hiding.
Save My SeatStart free: take the Iceberg Check
"I was curled up on my bed when I realized I did not know who I was without the title of wife."
Find what's under the surface, transform it, and learn how to love again on purpose.
Save My SeatStart free: take the Rebuild Check
"Our first fight was on our honeymoon. I said we had a great marriage and meant the opposite."
Stop asking whose fault it is and start asking what's under the iceberg.
Save My SeatStart free: open the Marriage Meter
Register Free
No cost and no card. Pick your session, tell Charisse which door you're walking through, and your confirmation email has the venue address and everything else you need.
Can't make the 22nd? The four-week program runs in person and live online, so you can join from anywhere. Or email Charisse and she'll tell you when the next live night is.
From Readers
"This book is full of entertaining and intriguing stories/examples that allow the reader the ability to relate and apply the knowledge that is shared."
Dave ★★★★★"Great reflections and ideas on making sure you understand wants vs needs. Evaluation of goals and relationships. Highly recommend quick read."
Kindle Customer ★★★★★"This book helped me understand that choosing the right partner begins with becoming healthy myself. At 21, I've already learned how much unresolved hurt, fear, and past experiences can affect the way we see ourselves and our relationships."
Jack ★★★★★Before You Register
Yes. The seat costs nothing and there's no card at registration. After you register you'll be offered a couple of optional add-ons, and you can decline both and still get the full session.
Because this is where the work goes from something Charisse is building to something she's running. October 22 is the last Flipping the Iceberg workshop at this price. If you've been meaning to hear her in person and haven't yet, this is the night to do it.
Limited by the room, not by marketing. When the seats are gone, registration closes, and the dinner seats are capped lower still.
No. Come as you are. The hour stands on its own.
No. Married people are one of the four doors, and "reconnect" is a real reason to be there. Nobody is asked to share anything in front of the room that they don't want to.
Please do. Just register each seat so the count stays right, and mention it if you're both coming to dinner.
Neither. Charisse is an author, speaker, and coach, not a licensed therapist, and nothing in this workshop is a substitute for professional therapy or medical advice. It's a framework for seeing your own patterns, and it can sit alongside work you're doing with a professional.
Not for this one. October 22 is in person only. The four-week program that follows runs both in person and live online, so distance isn't an issue there.
